There are some important things that you need to know when searching for a partner online. Here are some basic guidelines to stay safe while searching for the right match.
1.Give your parents number: While it is quite common for every one of us to provide our basic information and give our own contact number, always remember that it is not advisable to give your own mobile number. Wedding is something which needs to be accepted by our parents. Provide your parents contact number. This would ensure security in many ways.
2.Marriage is a union of two families and not just two people. Keep your family informed about all your proceedings and involve them in your decision-making. They would have the expertise to check how genuine the profile is based upon their past experience. Make sure you introduce the prospect to your family to be on the safe side.
3.Keep an eye on the profiles: There would be some profiles you are interested in. In case if you approach them ensure that you get all your answers right at the first time. Some people would refuse to give any sort of information and would disappear and might come again after some time and provide some information. Be careful with these kinds of profiles.
4.Read the correspondences / profiles carefully and ensure that they are not superfluous / unrealistic
5.Even after you find the person is genuine online Do not meet in private secluded places alone until you know the person really well. If you're meeting for the first time, try meeting in public places like cafe / restaurant and avoid meeting in hotel rooms or any private place.Ensure your own transportation to and fro. Always have any of your family members guard you.
6.Try not to get involved in a physical relationship with someone you barely know, no matter how sweet or charming they might be. Don't get carried away by external appearances and sweet talk. Marriage is forever and it is better to wait until you find the right match. Don't become prematurely close to someone, even if that intimacy only occurs online.
7.Beware of people who ask for money from you for whatever reason it can be a money scam. Do not pay anything for visa purposes or any such issues. Genuine person will not ask you for money in any circumstance. If someone asks you for money, use common sense and never give in to such requests Never discuss financial matters with someone you just met and hardly know. It could be highly unsafe.
8.In case someone asks you for money, report the situation to us.
9.Make sure that you call / receive calls at acceptable times
10.Don't use your regular or official email id for communicating with a person you don't know well
11.Never arrange for your prospective match to pick you up or drop you to his/her place
12.Never provide your financial status in detail and don’t give others any information on your bank accounts
13.Never ignore the following behavioural trends
a.If your clear questions don’t get direct answers.
b.If the person seems to ponder on minor questions
c.If inconsistent information is provided about education, occupation, age, caste, appearance etc.
d.If there is a significant difference in the person and the online profile
e.If the person avoids commitment.
f.If the person avoids your interaction with family members, colleagues or friends
g.If the person is avoiding further interactions frequently with you due to unexplained reasons
14.Your safety is also your responsibility:Malayaleemathcing.com believes that 'marriages are forever' and it is important that you choose the right person. At the end of day, it's also your responsibility to ensure your own safety and take precautionary steps. Trust your instincts and take the marital prospect further with the right person. We hope these safety tips will guide you in making wise decisions and in finding the right match.
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